If I were you, I would leave the US right now. There are plenty of countries happy to have you.
No need to put up with policies designed to control your body and life’s purpose with the intention of managing demography, maintaining capitalism, and promoting an ideology that considers you to be an unstable but necessary resource.
And it’s just going to get harder too, there will be more and more hurdles between you and your independence, identity, and purpose because controlling women is a targeted, systematic process that will require strategic hits to all parts of your being. You won’t know what happened until you wake up one day, and you will wake up one day, and all you will be thinking is “wtf happened, where did I go?”
So, if I were you, I would just save up for a 1/2 year of life, travel expenses to and fro, and then just… leave.
No reason to put up with domestic abuse… and it is domestic abuse if the harm comes at the writing hand of your own country.
So here is my final advice, whatever you do, don’t get pregnant in America, go somewhere else where they have your back. Also, make sure you can take care of yourself as well as your child before you carry any child to term because always want to be free to walk away… having that ability to walk away from a bad relationship is literally a form of resistance.
And make sure to get your education too, or have another solid plan. After that, just trust yourself and make lots of female friends and trust them too.
Girl, I know it sucks, but it’s time to fly away. You will thank me later.